By Single Black Female
This column may just get me in some serious trouble. The few guys who know the face behind the words are always on guard when we hang out. “You’re not going to write about me are you?” “I better not read about this date in your next column!” Those are some of [...]

By Single Black Female
The last seven short days my life, it seems, have taken on a life of their own. I’ve dealt with death, hurt, shadiness, pain, accomplishment and joy; too many emotions for someone who prefers to not to show the world her soft and pink side. I felt as if I was just [...]

By Single Black Female
Sunglasses are my favorite accessory, after shoes, purses and jewelry, that is. Shades up the cool factor of any look, so when the ladies at 360•  Media invited me to view out of this world pieces from Stevie Boi’s 2012 “Coexist” eyewear collection, you know I was there! If you said to [...]

By Single Black Female
Last week I talked about men who banish themselves to the friend zone but I wonder how (and why) it always seems that the good dudes end up there? What is it about them (gasp) or me! that keeps us from going a couple of steps further? I’ve been tossing this relationship [...]

By Single Black Female
I don’t think men and women will ever understand each other. I know men who say they wait for a sign from a woman to make the first move, out of respect. That’s fine, but what then is a woman to do when she’s giving you miles of green lights and you’re [...]

By Single Black Female
I know more than a few people, myself included, who thought the romance between Jay-Z and Beyonce was a farce. The hardest (and hottest) working woman in show biz and the best rapper alive sparked a flame that burned (secretly) bright enough for the world to (not) see. The denials, professionally correct [...]

By Single Black Female
Which is worse, being labeled a Cougar or called a MILF? Personally, I take MILF as a compliment; nothing wrong with being a hot mother who grown men fantasize about playing house with. But Cougar sounds predatory-like there’s a bunch of over thirty women standing around like a pack of hungry animals [...]

By Single Black Female
I was listening to Amerie’s song “More Than Love” featuring Fabolous. It’s a couple years old but has been in heavy rotation lately. The tune questions; “how can we make it love when I don’t trust you we need more than love?” It seems to be many relationship woes going on these [...]

“Why are you single?” That is the most common question I’m asked on a first date. My response is usually the politically correct, “Just haven’t found the right one yet.” My brain, however, is screaming “I’m single because some of you dudes are slithering sleazy slimy scum bags who I’m not trying to get caught [...]